Is is Healthy for Couples to Fight?

The difference between a healthy fight and a doomed relationship.

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Where We Go Wrong

Your Fights Are Boring

“Bickering is chronic, low-intensity warfare.” -Esther Perel

We Don’t Say What We Mean

“Vulnerability is terrifying and feels dangerous. It is not as scary, terrifying, and dangerous as getting to the end of our lives and asking what would have happened if I’d shown up?” -Brene Brown

We Don’t Apologize First (or at all)

“To apologize — there is nothing weak about it. Whoever apologizes first is always the stronger one.” -Esther Perel

What Healthy Fighting Looks Like

So what is a bad fight?

So what is a good fight?

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