The Only Way to Get Exactly What You Want

And the simple question that clarifies it all.

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The One Thing Holding You Back

The reality is, when we experience frustration at our lack of success or happiness, we are haunted by our unrealized expectations. We fantasize about who we could be…if only we could get there.

“If you want to get to the castle…you’ve got to swim the moat.” -Elizabeth Gilbert

It isn’t enough to dream of being an award winning, best-selling author. If you are sitting on your couch watching Netflix every night, it is not going to happen. You have to write.

What Are You Willing to Pay For?

There is a cost associated with every single undertaking in life. And you can’t just want the payoff. You have to want it all. The work, the sacrifice, the blood, sweat and tears it will take to get there.

“You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.”
Jonathan Safran Foer

But at the end of your life, do you want to say you played it safe by living a life that made others feel comfortable? Or do you want to be able to say you at least tried to become the truest version of yourself?

Living a Life With No Regrets

So often in life, we regret the road not taken. It is the chances not taken that disappoint us.

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

“This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.”

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